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blog from MyIslandsugar " DATING VS. MARRIAGE: A lot of people think that dating means they should just continue to date for years until they are ready..or they may NEVER be ready. That's fine too, if you choose to date for the rest of your life...but REMEMBER THIS:  If you're NOT married, then you're single...even if you're dating someone, you AND THEY are still LEGALLY single; hopefully, monogamous, but still SINGLE. Even, if you date for a long period of time before you marry, you are more likely to end up in divorce or split up...go figure. {see the Patti statement above for that one; although never-married Patti also just ended her engagement after SIX YEARS; she's now complaining about being too old {she's 49, I believe} to have her own children after wasting years with this man and others. This happens ALL THE TIME. Its not that difficult to steal someone who only "dating" someone else. Why can't they see someone else, they are sing...

"6  Place me like a seal over your heart,     like a seal on your arm;  for love is as strong as death,     its jealousy unyielding as the grave.  It burns like blazing fire,     like a mighty flame.  7  Many waters cannot quench love;     rivers cannot sweep it away.  If one were to give     all the wealth of one’s house for love,     it would be utterly scorned." Song of Solomon 8:6-7 She   16  My beloved is mine and I am his;    he browses among the lilies. 17  Until the day breaks    and the shadows flee, turn, my beloved,    and be like a gazelle or like a young stag    on the rugged hills. Song of Solomon 3   1  All night long on my bed    I looked for the one my heart loves;    I looked for him but did not find him. 2 ...

As Stacie Orrico sang, "There's gotta be more to life than chasing down every temporary high to satisfy me." You want to know why we're so desperate for companionship? The tv, the songs, media is feeding us a horrible message that if you're not in a relationship you're not living life truly, you can't be happy nor satisfied. I say without Christ you can't be truly satisfied. There's this new show coming out this summer called Single Ladies... They shouldn't have titled the show Single Ladies because they sure don't want to be single nor are they acting like ladies. How about Desperate Women?!! Come on!! Is that what being Single is all about? Looking for someone to change your status to taken?!    I like Queen Latifah but she could have done better than this- A black "Sex in the City"? The trailer (I do not advise kids to watch this. It has a sex scene and swearing): http://www.vh1.com/video/misc/612708/single-ladies-tr...